Getting PersonalPosted by Gaetana Friday, May 05 2017 10:03AM
I'm the type of person that you can depend on me to be very dependable. I rarely switch things up but when I do I often turn to love the item and it's added to my regular "stuff". That's what happened in April.
In April I added two items to my daily life and brought 2 things out of reserved that remind me why I love them so.
With the weather finally starting to get warmer in New York I can finally switch up my jewelry and accessorize like I want to. With that said my jewelry case has found a spot on my bedroom floor.It's that big and heavy that's the only place it can go. With that being said my most beloved necklace has found it's way back out.
My Scorpio Brass Gold Finish necklace
is back into my everyday jewelry wear. Yes, I'm a proud Scorpio woman and I show it. Now that the weather is getting warmer and no more chunky anything is needed.I can finally wear my necklaces. It's pointless when you're bundled up from head to toe. This necklace has been my go to necklace because it goes with everything. The reason why I even created this piece is it's a take on the name plate necklace. Yes I had one, along with the bracelet and ring. So instead of flashing your name. You're flashing your sign. I love it. Yes, you can still find certain signs still in stock on my website
I swear I feel like I live in Dollar Tree sometimes but you can't beat it. Everything is a dollar.
If you follow me on Instagram then you might have seen the pink pen (shown above) in my planner pictures. I obsessed with it. I went into Dollar Tree on the hunt for a new pen because my coveted pens from Target and other Dollar Tree pens were slowly but surely dying out on me. So I more then anything pick these pens up for the color and pattern on them then the ink inside them. Well I surprised when I got home and found them to be gel instead of regular pens. But let me tell you that I LOVE them. I tried using a regular pen one day and threw the sucker to the side and went an grabbed my gel pen out of my planner. I don't think I"ll ever go back to a regular pen again. I've been converted.Gel pens all day, everyday.
You know I have to have some hair products in my monthly favs. So get ready because I"m about to go on a love fest. Eden BodyWorks my hair loves you.
I finally finished the Cream of Nature CoWash. Thank god because the smell of it was turning me off for some reason. I've used the Eden BodyWorks All Natural Cleansing CoWash
before and loved it. I was surprised I had another new bottle to use. I now remember why I love this stuff. #1 it has amazing slip, #2 it doesn't take a lot , #3 it foams up like a shampoo, #4 makes my hair feel clean, #5 smells so good, #6 my hair loves this stuff and responds well to it, #7 makes detangling so easier.
Yes my container is almost done. I can probably get one more wash out of this for me and my mother's hair. Yes, my mother's hair loves this too and her hair type is more kinker than mine. You can see from the picture that the consistency is so lightweight and is water based. Any that that is super light and water based my hair LOVES. Heavy products my hair hates with a passion and will show too. I have to buy another bottle ASAP. You can find this at your local beauty supply, Target, Walmart, and Sally's too.
Now this product my sister got a while back from a CurlBox and was hoarding it. She finally said here try this and I"m so glad she did. Mind you she has relaxed hair. Total side note. But anyway...
Now that the weather is warming up I can now go the easier route with my hair and wash n' gos are it. So I tried out a wash and go using the Eden BodyWorks All Natural Curl Definining Creme
. Gurl... Gurl, I LOVE this product. I did my regular routine and then used this and Cantu gel. My curls came out popping. And my hair was so moisturized. Not just a day or two but the entire week. To the touch when I would fluff up my hair I could legit moisturize my hands afterwards. So I said to myself let me do a twist out and see if my twists come out good too. It didn't let me down.
The picture doesn't lie. My hair was on point and everyone was raving about my hair. It was super moisturized and got bigger and bigger as the days went on.
As you can tell from the photo (shown above) it thick but not thick in a heavy way. It's still lightweight because one of the first ingredients listed is WATER. Good H2O. It has amazing slip. Which my hair loves. It absorbs into my hair and leaves my hair super moisturized. This week I was super lazy and put my hair into a puff right after cowashing and deep conditioning. I worn that for 2 days then twisted the front and put a puff in the back. My hair was so dry from my laziness. I said to myself let me grab this. I put this in my hair as a moisturizer and styled my hair. It didn't let me down. After three days I took that out and remoisturized my hair and did two two-strand twists until wash day tomorrow.So it not only works for wash n' gos, plus twist outs but works as a moisturizer and styler. Along with Curlz Twist n/ Shout this is going to be my go to product for everything. When you find a product that works I stick with it.
I used this product for 5 weeks straight and I have so much to still go. I can probably go another 5 weeks before I need another container. So you get a lot for you money. But on a side note, DO NOT use Eco Styler gel with this. I tested it on the back of my hand and it doesn't mix well. Luckily, I had a bottle of Cantu gel which it works well with. I forgot to add that with my favs so I guess it will be included in May's.
So this concludes my Must Haves for April. Go try Eden BodyWorks
products they're the business. They get my stamp of approval.
What were you loving for April? I would love to hear.
Getting PersonalPosted by Gaetana Tuesday, April 18 2017 11:42AM
Not everyone is a morning person. Years ago when I was working during the day and going to school at night I was a night owl. A decade plus later, I love going to be at least 11pm. 12 am if I want to live dangerous. I'm a morning person and is normally up at 5:30am or 5:35am every morning even on Sundays when I try to sleep.
Being a morning person has really help me to get more done in my day. By 12 midday I can honestly say majority of the items on the list for the day are completed. Which frees my time up for other things. Here's what I've learned by being a morning person.
1. Wake up early it will motivate you more.
Because you're up earlier you'll want to tackle the things you have to get done. You'll be motivate to get them done.2.Give yourself time to get ready.
I hate being rushed to get ready. So getting up early gives me plenty time to get ready at my own pace plus make breakfast and etc.3. Take a hot shower.
When you get up early you have time to actually enjoy a long shower instead of jumping in bathing and jumping back out. 4. Do your beauty routine.
Being up early enables you have the need time to do your beauty routine without feeling or being rush. Even though I can beat my face in 20 minutes if I really have to.5. Exercise! Get your stretch on and then a workout before you leave.
Some people like to get a early workout in before they start their day. You're body will thank you later in the day.6. Plan our your day.
Being a planner, my day is already planned out. I just take a brief look inside my planner and see what I have to get done for the day.7. Pump that music.
Due to the time I get up I can't pump my music but if you're like my sister she's always pumping her music when she's getting ready. It'll keep you in a good mood while getting ready to start your day.8. Read something that inspires you.
Because I get up so early I normally have time to read a chapter or two of whatever book I'm reading at the moment. It's a great start to the day.9. Start your day doing the most hardest task.
I've noticed if I get the hardest task done first thing in the morning my day moves more smoothly.It's like lifting a weight off my shoulder.10. Brain exercise - crossword or sudoku
Got to keep you mind sharp. No better way then doing crosswords or sudoku early in the morning.11. Eat light at night so you don't wake up feeling full.
I've noticed if I eat a very heavy meal the night before I'll wake up super hunger the next morning which will result in me wanting to eat a super heavy breakfast. Which isn't good.12. Don't press snooze.
I'm really good with not pressing snooze.Because all that does is delay your day.13. Get out of the bedroom don't tempt yourself to get back in bed.
Your bed will tempt you. So once I'm done getting ready I get out of my bedroom.14. Meditate.
If you're into meditating then this would be a good way to start your day.15. Check emails and voicemails so you can plan accordingly.
Out of habit we all check out phone first thing in the morning but instead of scrolling on Facebook or Instagram check your email. If there are any pressing items you can add it to your schedule for the day.16. Catch up on the news so you don't face the day completely clueless about the day events.
With our current world it's good to stay up-to-date on the current world events.17.Drink water.
I'm not a water drinker but I'm trying. I've heard it's good to start your day with at least a cold cup of water.18. Stick to your routine through the week and try not to deviate too far on the weekend.
Just like keep your children to a routine you need to have one too. Once you start on try to keep it going even on weekends. You'll be happy at it later.
These are why I like being a morning person plus so many more not listed. Are you a morning person or a night owl?
Getting PersonalPosted by Gaetana Tuesday, April 04 2017 02:14PM
This week I decided to do something different and take you inside my bag that I carry majority of the time. So let's go inside.
The tote that I carry 80% of the time is from Zara. I purchased it over a year ago as a birthday gift to myself. As you can see, I add a cute black puff as an added accessory. When you look down into the bag you can see there are two compartments and a middle zippered area. That's the best part of the bag.So all the little and loose items can go in there and don't get lost in the bottom of my bag. On one side of the compartment it houses my planner and notebook and the other my books. So let's go into each item in my bag.
You guys are probably pretty tired of seeing my planner but here it is once again. My planner is the Recollections Creative Year Solid Planner in metallic ivory. To see an inside look at my planner, check out my blogpost "2017 Planner
". This baby isn't too far from my bag if it isn't inside my bag. Got to start organized.
Along with my planner in that one compartment you'll find my notebook and pen. Because you never know when you have to jot something down or an idea may hit you. This notebook and pen set is from the Target Dollar spot and is always in my bag no matter what.
I always have some type of book on me and I'm STILL reading I'm Judging You by Luvvie Ajayi. I'll finish it one of these days. To see a full review of what I think on it, check out my blog post "What Were READING
The other item in that compartment that never leaves my bag no matter what is my Kindle. I have over 3,000 books on this thing and I would hate to be stuck anywhere with this thing. I hate being bored. Might as well spend my doing something useful like reading.
Lastly, inside the zippered area you will always find my makeup bag which houses my life of makeup on the go. It's actually lighter today because a good part of what I carry on a regular day is in my crossbody bag at the moment. So let's go inside and see what I'm loving as far as makeup.
Today I only have 4 MAC lipsticks. That's pretty good because I normally have up to 6 or more. Yes I said 6 or more. The current ones in the photo are Velvet Teddy, Whirl, Cozy Up, and Cherish. I also have a NYX lip pencil in Soft-Spoken. As well as a MAC Vamplify in Tuned in. Oh and let's not forget the perfume sample in Madonna Truth or Dare.
I try to keep my bag as clean as possible. I hate loose paper and tissues so normally at the end of the day I clean it out. Because this tote can be a catchall if I don't keep up with it. Which will only result in getting too heavy.
So that's the inside of bag. Minus my keys, mirror, and business card case. What bag are you carrying. Feel free to share.
Getting PersonalPosted by Gaetana Friday, March 24 2017 01:58PM
I've been slipping in and out of a reading slump since the end of last year. I have so many books to read but no ambition to read them. I bought I'm Judging You by Luvvie Ajayi
around my birthday last November. Since I heard her on Myleik Teele's Podcast I knew I had to get the book. Luvvie was HILARIOUS. I've been reading this book off and on since last year. I can usually finish a book within a week but for some reason I've been picking up and putting down this book.
Don't get me wrong it's GOOD
but my mind just can't stay focused enough to read it through. I have 86 more pages left and is determine to finish it before this month is over.
If you don't know Luvvie by now you've been living underneath a rock. This book has reach the NY Times Best Sellers list. She's doing speaking engagement all over the world including the White House. But enough about her because I can go on and on.
Luvvie touches every topic you can imagine from friendships to racism to rape to social media to business. She touches them all and then some. She tells it like it is and is funny while doing it. I read some of the reviews before opening it and just had to shake my head. Some people just don't get it but it's her opinion on these topics. She never said she was an EXPERT
I really should of been keeping notes while reading this but there was so many times I had to stop and read my sister a couple of lines with tears in my eyes from laughing so much. A couple of times when she talked about racism I had to put the book down because what she was saying was so true and it had my blood boiling. She talks about the topics that people are too scared to talk about. That we all sometimes brush underneath the rug and hope it goes away but when you pull back the rug it's still sitting right there. Even though I haven't finished it I will tell you that you HAVE to read it. It's a must read. I'm looking forward to her next book. I follow her on Instagram and Twitter and highly suggest that you do too.
If anything that you take from reading her book is she makes you think about the topics she discussing. She makes you talk and want to discuss them with your friends and family.
Don't walk, run to go read her book. Don't read the reviews like I did. Actually read them. They'll make you want to read what the BAD
reviews are talking about. Because they just don't get it. They really don't.
What are you reading? I'm always open to book recommendations.
Getting PersonalPosted by Gaetana Tuesday, March 21 2017 01:45PM
Happy Spring!!! It's finally here even though Mother Nature still refuses to warm up permanently.Nevertheless, it's time to do my spring bucket list.
Just like previous bucket lists.I used a blank sheet of graphic paper in my planner and used stickers from Create 365 The Happy Planner Seasonal Value Pack Stickers
to create this bucket list. I made sure to include items that I would actually do realistically.
This spring bucket is way easier then other bucket lists in the past. I love spring because the farmer markets are back in full swing but this year might be harder to find one because the one I usually frequent is no longer around. But I'm determine to find one if it kills me. I'm always baking so baking cookies I'll probably do next week. Probably some nice lemon cookies. Fresh and tart. I can't wait for it to get a little bit warmer. I miss bbq-ing and food fresh off the grill. Yum! Spring cleaning. Does anyone want to help me? I'm planning to do a little bit at a time. Starting tomorrow to be exact. Just as soon as it get a little bit warmer I have to picnic all planned out at Prospect Park. My mother gets cooked for a daily basis so that one is already done and completed. Valentine's Day has already came and went and I actually made a Valentine. If you remember my open letter. I handmade the whole thing. My father loves kits and it will take him back to his time back home in GT. I heard Dollar Tree has some good ones. So I'll check them out and hopefully they have one so I can fly a kit with my father. Lastly, pick fresh berries. I'll knock this one off my list if I find a good farmer's market to shop from.
So as you can see my bucket list is easy peasy. I should be able to knock each task off easily. I'll check back at the end of spring and let you know how I do.
Are you doing a bucket list for spring? If so, what's on your list?
Getting PersonalPosted by Gaetana Friday, March 17 2017 09:25AM
I wasn't sure if I wanted to do this blog post this morning but finally decided what the hell might as well. Being a woman in your 20s and a woman in your 30s is too different entities. By 30 at least you should know and I say "should" know yourself. Let's first take a look back at my glorious 20s in pictures.
By 19 I knew where I wanted my career to go, when I wanted to get married and when I wanted to have kids. I had it all planned out. What I learned between 20-21 you can plan all you want. Being a Scorpio I love being in control and I had to learn the hard way that I wasn't in control. God was. He knows when, where,what, who and why. At 20 I was in my last year of college about to graduate. Between 20-21 my life took a dramatic turn and I had several life changes that made me grow up faster then I would have liked. But I'm convinced it was all supposed to happen. By 23 I was working as a designer in the fashion industry here in my hometown of NYC.That year I made several life changes along with several life changes. I learned the hard way about family you've known from birth can turn on you in heartbeat, my mother was hospitalized and could of possibly died, my last living grandparent passed away, I moved away from my hometown and started a business. All of that happened in a very short period of time. A lot I know.
Between 24-27 I was feeling the shift from not being home in NYC and living down south among my father's side of the family. Being in a whole new environment. I was loving my life, the people in it and I was growing in myself. In my teens to early 20s I was partier. I had no desire for it. I would rather spend time at home or with my family or quiet time with my boyfriend at the time. I was growing into myself.
By 28-29, I can home to NY more frequently and hung around my old friends. They were doing the same thing when I left. I realized when I said certain things to them they would turn the conversation around and make it all about them. Nothing of substance. So guess what I did, I put everyone to the test and if you didn't pick up the phone to call me. Because I realized I was always to one to reach out to people .BYE.
By 30, I knew the type of people I wanted to have around me with my mother diagnoses of cancer and her going through treatments you realize what's more important. I never had a huge amount of close friends. I've always knew a lot of people but that close friends I could count on my hand. I knew I couldn't depend on them even when I needed them most. God gave me two sister and I'll hold them closer then ever.
Now at 33, I feel like I'm still evolving but into a woman I love. My twenties and living in the south among my father's family has brought my personality at home to the forefront. I'm a chatterbox at home, goofy, loud, feisty, a fire ball. Now everyone sees it. Oh, I forgot opinionated. I used to bite my tongue and keep my mouth closed to not stir the pot because I knew what I was going to say was to ruffle some feathers. Now, it's not that I don't care but I have an opinion too and I want it to be heard. I like what I like and if you don't oh well. It's not about people liking me. You don't like me.Oh well. I don't care what people have to say about me. I don't because people will always talk.About what you do, how you look and what you say. But one thing you will do is give me respect. I don't plan too far into the future. I leave it all in God's hands. Yes I want children, yes I want to get married. When will it happen I have no clue. I don't force things.What my twenties taught me is to be flexible. So in my thirties, I'm flexible to change.I don't fight the current.
Life is about growing and learning about yourself. I can only imagine what my 40s, 50s, and 60s have in store for me. I can't wait for the journey.
What have you learned about being a woman in your 30s?
Getting PersonalPosted by Gaetana Friday, March 10 2017 01:53PM
For anyone who's into planning or just staying organized then you might enjoy this blog post. I'm going to share with you my weekly to-do list and how I create one. If you follow me on Instagram
then you already know that I'm into planning. You see my weekly spread but what you don't see is my running to-do that sits in between my cute spread.
It houses everything that I don't have scheduled on a specific day but needs to get done that week. Also a shopping list of things I may need to pick up at the store,plus my workout schedule and how much water I'm drinking.
The back side of that grid paper houses a habit tracker of tasks I do on a daily basis, dinner tracker, and if I have any appointments or phone calls I need to make go to the bottom of that.
So now that you see what a finished weekly to-do list looks like let's create one. It's super easy and I'll show you how.
You're going to need the following.
-A sheet of grind paper ( I use the Recollections Grid paper)
-Stickers ( I use Me & My Big Ideas 1829 sticker book, and stickers by Create 365 The Happy Planner)
I then cut down the grid paper to the size I want.
Note: I don't choose colors randomly with my stickers.They also coordinate with whatever theme I choose for that week. Let's start with the actual To-Do list. I take a To-Do sticker for that and put that at the very top of the page. I normally put a checklist flag but I didn't have any in the color I need so I put down 5 yellow stars.
I then put down a purple To Buy sticker and a purple checklist. For anything I may need to buy for that week. Pretty self explanatory.
Since they're is doctor's appointment this week I put down a Dr. Appt sticker then a Gym sticker for my workout schedule and a hydrate sticker.
Now onto the other side. I first put down a Dinner Time sticker to write down what I had for dinner during the week.
I always put down some motivational sticker at the very top of the page. This time I chose, "Let's Do This". Got to keep myself motivated to get stuff done. Every bit helps.
Time to build my habit tracker. I go across and put the initial for each day of the week and I then put lines to space out what I want to track. You can put anything.The possibilities are endless.
Then underneath the Dinner Time sticker going downward I put the initial for each day of the week.
I then moved the gym sticker from the front to below my dinner's so I would have more room to write out my workout schedule.
And this completes my Weekly To-Do list. Pretty simply right. With things you probably already own, a piece of paper and a pen. I would love to see how you create your weekly to-do list. Feel free to share.
Getting PersonalPosted by Gaetana Tuesday, March 07 2017 10:23AM
February was a super short month and with that being said. The amount of favorites I have this month has doubled January's. There was so much stuff I was loving and using on a daily basis. Unfortunately, no jewelry or accessories due to me wearing $1 studs and hoop earrings.
So lets get into my favorites because we might be here for awhile.
If you follow me on Instagram
then you know I'm into planning. I love my 1829 pieces sticker book from me & my BIG ideas. I use this thing weekly in my planner. From my weekly planner spread to my grid extra that I put in between my spreads.
This stickers are perfect for functional planning. and commonly be found at Michael's for $19.99 and up. I can not plan without this thing.
Yet another planner related item. I own several font stamps but this one has become my all time favorite to use in my weekly spreads to stamp out the month. Number one, the font is clear. The stamps takes well to most inks I've used and don't take little to no pressure to get a clear stamp.Cleans off easily too.
I purchase them a while back from Michael's in their $1.50 section. It's by studio g. A great buy for sure.
I went natural over a year ago and Eco Style Gel is a coveted item to my hair routine. I live by my gel. I really need to buy stock if it's available because they get so much of my money. I can literally go through a container 16 fl oz in a month or two.
This one is the olive oil one and I use it every time I style my hair. Wash n' go's, twist outs, ponytails,braid outs. It's my holy grail. I recently ran out of it and was too lazy to go the beauty supply to buy another one.So I used another gel that I had laying around. Boy did I regret it. My twist outs and braid outs didn't come out as good as they normally would.
It's a gel constancy as you can see and despite it being a gel it's super light weight and doesn't weigh your hair down. I never had flaking from it. I'm dying to get my hands on the new one though. I haven't seen it in stores yet. So you know how that goes.
I think I literally tried every edge control on the market. This one by Design Essentials Natural Honey & Shea Edge Tamer in Firmer Hold
is the business. I first used this months back on my sister hair when we installed her faux locs. It was laying around on my dresser ever since until one day I picked it up and used it in my hair. Girl, let me tell you this is the best edge control for my hair.
It was once clear but with my bedroom getting warm it melted several times over and re-harden. But nevertheless, it still works the same. When I want a sleek two strand twist braids or a two regular corn rolls or a high ponytail or even if I twist my hair this baby never lets me down. It even lasts for several days. This item is pretty affordable for an Design Essentials product $11.99. You can find it at your local beauty supply, Target, Walmart and the Design Essentials website
Now if you know me I live by my Lotta Body with Coconut & Shea Oils Moisturize Me. I think I can finish a bottle in a month or two. Especially now that my mother is natural and I basically take care of her hair for her. Between the two of us I say a month tops now. I use this in all the styling of my hair in combination with the Eco Styling gel. Twist outs, braid outs, twists it does it all. It not only helps style my hair but is also very moisturizing. It helps that it smells great too. You can find it at your local beauty supply, Target and Walmart
. Price range around $3.99 .
My sister is a product junkie and she came across this while browsing the aisles in Ulta. She ended up not like it and guess who she gave it to.Me. When I first tried it 2 days in I thought it was drying my face out but we realize the air in NY got really dry all of a sudden.I amped up my moisturizer and problem solved.So I continued using the Nip + Fab Hydrate Dragon's Blood Plumping Serum
. It says on the bottle it delivers a instant shot of moisture with hyaluronic acid to hydrate for plumper skin. Velvet flower to enhance moisture and dragon's blood comforts and restores skin hydration.
With all that said it does leave my skin hydrated. I've tried several serums in the past but those being an oil or cream. This one is a gel and I think that makes a difference in how it works. I can automatically feel my skin sucking it up. It doesn't just sit on top of my skin. My skin does feel firmer and stays moisturized throughout the day with and without makeup. Retails at Ulta for $19.99 but on sale for $16.99.
My final favorite is an mascara. Benefit they're Real!
Recently mascaras have been irritating my eyes but this one doesn't. I've heard mixed reviews on this mascara and both my sisters hate it . I like it. I have no lashes unlike my younger sister and this one give me some plus more. Not only makes them fuller but makes them longer too. I'm a huge fan of Maybelline's Volum' Express The Falsies mascara and it give me the umph that Falsies does.
I think the barrel wand makes the difference. So I will repurchase this baby in the future.
Whew, that was alot of stuff. I can only imagine the amount I'll have next month. What were you loving last must? I'm dying to find out.